Fostering in Gloucester, like in many parts of the UK, is a critical service, providing homes for children who cannot live with their birth families due to various reasons such as abuse, neglect, or family breakdowns.
With more than 860 children in care in Gloucester alone and the number rising by 11% annually, the demand for dedicated foster carers is more pressing than ever.
Kerry and Darren were approved as foster carers in 2019 with Nexus Fostering. They opened their hearts and home to siblings aged 10 and 14.
Reflecting on when the siblings arrived, Kerry said, “The initial days were daunting. I remember vividly what they wore and how they looked sitting on the sofa. We were their eleventh home, and I could only imagine how frightened they must have felt.”
Despite the challenges, Kerry finds immense fulfilment in fostering. “It’s incredible to know I’ve played a part in their growth and will always be part of their lives. I truly love fostering and wouldn’t change it for anything,” she reflects.
“In our family, we have three different surnames, and when our foster children first arrived, we explained that a family’s foundation isn’t defined by sharing the same surname – it’s built on love, listening, compassion, care, and learning.”
Kerry believes fostering has instilled a deep sense of gratitude, empathy, and compassion in their birth children, strengthening family bonds. “Our birth children understand how fortunate they are and have become very protective of their foster siblings,” she said.
“We’ve had incredible moments as a family. They’ve learned to climb, kayak, and participate in Scouting. We’ve sent our eldest off to prom and celebrated her A Level results, while helping the youngest try new things and face her fears has also been a highlight.”
Now, after helping their eldest foster child move on to university, they are preparing to welcome another child into their home. “We’re both excited and nervous,” said Kerry, “But I’m eager for the new journey ahead.”
The couple is encouraging others to consider becoming foster carers. “I would highly recommend it if you’re looking for a rewarding experience in every way,” said Kerry. “Nexus Fostering creates a family atmosphere, offering excellent training and support, and they include biological children in outings and events for everyone.”
Drop-in sessions
For those inspired to make a difference, Nexus Fostering invites you to attend one of its upcoming drop-in sessions at the local Gloucester office on Tuesday, November 5 or Tuesday, December 3 from 10am until noon.
These will be at Unit A5, Elmbridge Court, Cheltenham Road East, Gloucester, GL3 1JZ and are an opportunity to learn more about fostering and how you can contribute to changing lives.
Foster care support
Nexus Fostering offers a fantastic support system for foster carers. Rated consistently as Outstanding by Ofsted, it provides around-the-clock support every day of the year through local, experienced professionals.
The agency also offers extensive initial training and ongoing education to ensure carers are fully prepared for and supported throughout their fostering journey.
Antony, area manager said. “Our team has a wealth of experience and a real passion for working with carers and children with the aim of supporting a rich and rewarding experience for you in fostering, whilst enabling children to have a sense of security, belonging and to thrive.
“We would say we are a caring and professional team who try to bring some fun and a family feel to what we do. The South West team will do all we can to support and guide you through the occasional challenges and the amazing experiences you will have on your fostering journey with us here at Nexus .”
The agency supports all types of fostering placements with a dedicated placement team, ensuring that each child’s needs are met appropriately, with careful and considered matching processes. Additionally, they provide access to an education lead who assists carers, children, and young people with educational matters, helping them achieve their academic goals.
Furthermore, the agency offers a competitive fostering allowance to recognise and reward the invaluable contributions of foster carers.
This shortage of fosterers spans various types of fostering, including emergency care, short-term placements, long-term placements, respite care, and specialised care for children with complex needs. There is also a need for fosterers who have space for siblings to keep them together.
The need for foster carers in Gloucester mirrors a national trend. As of 2023, more than 80,000 children are in care across the UK, with approximately 70% placed with foster carers. However, there is a significant shortage of foster families; an estimated additional 8,000 are needed annually.
Consider becoming a foster carer today and experience the profound impact you can have on a young life.