The real reason Kimberly Rochelle and TJ Goswami broke up

From Tejaswi “TJ” Goswami and Kimberly Rochelle 90 Day Fiancé: In a different way have decided to separate, and there are some understandable reasons behind their decision. Kimberly fell in love with her Indian boyfriend after finding him on social media. He had dreamed about her before, and made her feel that meeting her was more than just a coincidence. Kimberly didn’t wait long after meeting TJ and booked her flight to India. She traveled to Jaipur hoping to marry her Indian partner. Unfortunately, things did not go according to plan. Kimberly had difficulty understanding and following Hindu cultural and religious values.

As Kimberly spent more time with TJ, she realized that her in-laws did not accept her. He was enraged by his brother-in-law’s constant interference and offended by his mother-in-law’s rules. Kimberly was also not impressed with the apartment that TJ had built for her because it didn’t look American enough. Despite all the challenges, Kimberly stayed with TJ hoping for a happy ending. He married her and seemed confident in his decision. Unfortunately, Kimberly’s marriage lasted only a few yearsand her relationship with TJ ended before they could reach any major milestones together.

Kimberly says TJ changed after they got married

TJ has been holding back his love for Kimberly

Recently, Kimberly opened up about why he had decided to leave India and return to the United States. During Instagram Live, she shared the real reasons why her marriage to TJ failed. Kimberly said the biggest problem was TJ’s changed behavior.

She said he treated her with love and eased her insecurities before marriage, but things changed after they tied the knot. Apparently, TJ became less empathetic towards her and more self-centered. The reality star claimed she hadn’t seen that kind and sweet version of TJ since their marriage.

Kimberly and TJ can’t communicate with each other

Kimberly does not speak TJ’s native language, Hindi

The 90 day fiance the franchise alum admitted that they both have communication issues, mainly due to their cultural and language differences. Kimberly explained that it is a significant factor the miscommunication is that English is not TJ’s first language. She did not attack her husband but instead took full responsibility for the situation, holding herself and TJ equally responsible for the lack of communication. So far, TJ has not issued a statement on the matter and has temporarily deactivated his social media account.

TJ made Kimberly feel abandoned

Kimberly receives no physical affection from TJ

Kimberly cried during a recent Instagram live session and shared how she begged TJ to love her. She revealed that her husband had stopped showing physical affection for a while. The 90 Day Fiancé: In a different way the Season 5 alum said so she had to ask him to kiss her or hold her hand, which took a toll on her sanity. She accused TJ of making her feel abandoned and stated that no person should ever have to beg their partner for a little love because that kind of behavior is really hurtful.

Kimberly and TJ fought over the fries

Looks like TJ has a quick temper

Kimberly revealed that she and TJ had been arguing a lot over the past few months. During a live Instagram session, she shared a shocking incident where TJ bought her a pack of fries as a nice gesture even though she couldn’t eat the staple food in India. When Kimberly complained about it, TJ got angry and grabbed the potatoes from his handsthrow them away. The 90 Day Fiancé: In a different way aluna blamed his wife for the incident when she cursed him in revenge.

TJ had punched Kimberly in the face before their marriage

Kimberly retaliated by punching TJ back

Kimberly also talked about a domestic violence incident that happened before her marriage to TJ. She mentioned that TJ once punched her in the face and she responded by punching him back. Fortunately, the situation did not escalate into a full-fledged wrestling match. Kimberly assured everyone of that TJ hadn’t laid hands on him since.

However, he hinted that the incident had a lasting effect on him because he had been “physically abused” as a child. Kimberly’s shocking statement revealed that her relationship with TJ was flawed long before they married.

Kimberly tore up her wedding photo with TJ

Kimberly’s name was misspelled in the wedding album

Kimberly discussed the shocking incident when she tore up her wedding photos, as reported @shabootydotcom. This eventually led TJ to ask her to leave him. He clarified that he only destroyed the photos with his name on them, not the entire wedding album. Kimberly looked back on her wedding day and remembered how her name was misspelled on the ornaments and in the album, symbolizing the state of her marriage. Kimberly apologized for tearing up the wedding photos and seemed apologetic for her actions, admitting that both she and TJ were to blame for the situation.

TJ doesn’t want to go to marriage counseling

Kimberly claims that TJ is giving her the silent treatment

Kimberly admitted that she and TJ needed marriage counseling to deal with their marital problems. However, neither has tried it yet. It seems that TJ’s cultural background and his current mindset have prevented him from going to marriage counseling. He may believe that ignoring the problem will make it go away. Kimberly noted that TJ no longer communicates with his family. She suggested that her husband could isolate himself to get some space, but considered that possibility as well he treats others silently as a form of manipulation.

Kimberly says TJ doesn’t want to break up with her

TJ has not stopped Kimberly from returning to the US

Kimberly has expressed her interest in resigning and moving on. However, he admitted that TJ doesn’t want the same and would never sign the papers. Kimberly discussed and hinted at her husband’s lack of interest in divorcing her he wants to keep her trapped in the marriage. While she said TJ won’t let their marriage end, she also revealed that he won’t try to stop her from returning to the US. Hence the former actress’ lack of interest in getting a divorce 90 Day Fiancé: In a different way probably due to cultural taboos.

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