Fostering is a chance to change lives.
Compassionate individuals and families are being invited to consider becoming a foster carer in Greater Manchester.
As Greater Manchester Foster Fortnight approaches this November, local authorities are dispelling myths. One common misconception is “I can’t make the commitment to full-time fostering”.
If you’ve ever considered fostering but felt unsure about the time commitment, consider the story of Gemma and Richard, who found a balance between their busy lives and fostering through respite care.
The couple had long contemplated becoming foster carers, but with demanding careers and a young son, they were hesitant about whether they could integrate another child into their family life.
Gemma said: “I have friends and colleagues who support children in care, so I knew that local councils were always looking for new foster carers. I also felt that our family had a lot to offer, but initially, it was difficult to see how we could foster without making big changes.”
Their perspective shifted when they discovered respite fostering, which means offering temporary support to full-time foster families, giving much-needed breaks for personal commitments or simply to recharge.
Like all families, this arrangement receives support from extended family members like grandparents or aunts and uncles.
The couple applied as respite carers with their local authority in 2020 and navigated the application process remotely during the pandemic, undergoing the same training as full-time carers, including the Skills to Foster course.
“We learned so much during the course,” Gemma reflects. “It really helped us to be ready to care for children in our home.”
Integrating fostering into family life
Now, Gemma and Richard care for two siblings every other weekend, which provides their regular carers with time to relax and prepare for the week ahead. The children have their own bedroom at Gemma and Richard’s house, complete with clothes and toys, making it truly feel like a second home.
“We love having them here,” Gemma said. “They have become part of our family.” The relationship with the children’s primary carers has also flourished, creating a supportive network that steps in as needed.
“Having spent time with many full-time foster carers, the opportunity to have someone that can provide a bit a free time is very welcomed,” Gemma added.
This planned respite care fits seamlessly around their work schedules. “Knowing when the children will be staying makes a big difference,” says Gemma. “We were lucky as we have very supportive employers that are flexible if time is needed to support the children.”
While respite care can also serve emergency needs, planned arrangements allow Gemma and Richard to ensure they have quality time with the children, engaging in activities they enjoy together.
Join Greater Manchester’s fostering community
Gemma is encouraging others in similar situations to consider part-time or respite fostering. “I know there are many people who would like to be foster carers but have other commitments which make it difficult. Helping at the weekends, even if it is once or twice a month, can make a real difference.”
Alongside receiving full support from their fostering provider – including a designated social worker and access to training – respite carers can connect with other foster carers, forming a vital support network.
For some, part-time fostering can be a stepping stone toward full-time care as circumstances evolve. It offers valuable experience while building relationships within the fostering community.
Whether you choose full-time or part-time fostering, your involvement can provide stability and love to children when they need it most.
