My heart broke for 90 Day Fiancé star Vanja Grbic (If Luketin Vrdoljak was much worse than Božo Vrdoljak)

90 Day Groom: Before 90 days old Vanja Grbic probably had the worst luck in season 7and I can’t be sorry for what happened between him and Josko Luketin right after Božo Vrdoljak dumped him. Vanja is a successful career woman from Florida. A pharmaceutical sales representative by profession, Vanja works confidently as a belly dancer in addition to being a vegan baker and a permanent make-up artist specializing in areola tattoos for breast cancer survivors. I was so impressed with Vanja’s resume that I knew she would find a man who would appreciate her in life.

Unfortunately, Vanja chose two of the meanest men of season 7 so far. Vanja didn’t think too much that Božo was ghosting her when he went to see her after the flight. Vanja had fallen for Božo, who told her he loved her, let her travel the world, and then backed off. When he met her, he began to belittle every kind wordall the sweet things he’s ever said to her. Vanja should have learned his lesson and stayed away from socializing for a while, but then Josko, the bigger villain, stepped in.

Vanja’s ex-fiance cheated on her

Vanja’s ex-husband lived a double life

I watched Vanja talk about his painful past in his presentation. She was a Jack of all trades and was super confident in all aspects of her life, but when it came to dating and relationships, life was unkind to Vanja. Something about the way he talked about his past told me everything I needed to know about Vanja’s behavior in his relationships. It seemed like he had always been a giver, constantly putting his partner’s needs before his own and placing unrealistic or high expectations on someone who wasn’t actively committed or invested in the relationship.

Eleven years ago, Vanja had met a man with whom he thought he would spend the rest of his life. They even engaged at the Great Wall of China. Vanja and his ex started arguing. He couldn’t understand what was going on. One day he came to her house and caught her with the girl on the sofa. Vanja laughed as he recalled the incident, but the pain in his eyes made my heart melt. She was a gentle soul whose heart had been trampled by the man she wanted to spend the rest of her life with.

Vanja had a painful childhood

Vanja has survived the war

The whole relationship was a lie because the man had been living a Double Life all along. Vanja is from Eastern Europe. He saw that there were similarities between him and Božo. He felt like home to her. Vanja had a beautiful childhood in Bosnia, but the war started when he was 10 years old. He had gone to visit his grandparents when he saw the sky lit up by missiles and could never return home.

Vanja lived for a year without water and electricity. He survived on a mixture of flour and onions. I can’t imagine how Vanja said:I got killed a couple of times” during the interview without breaking down. Vanja experienced such traumas as a child, he deserves happiness as an adult, but life has not been kind 90 day fiance star. He knew that the war affected Božo’s family in Croatia just like everyone else in the former Yugoslavia, and he felt that he understood the scars he bore.

Božo never loved Vanja

Božo wanted to get back together with his ex-girlfriend

Vanja had been single for six years when he went to see Božo. He wanted to come back with a ring on his finger. However, Božo I didn’t even remember messaging Vanjai love you” He had no feelings for Vanja and used her as a distraction after breaking up with his ex-girlfriend. I think Božo didn’t even expect Vanja to come down to Croatia to meet him. However, Vanja wanted his rom-com moment. Unfortunately, it became a horror story for Vanja. Božo revealed that he had never loved Vanja. He said they were “good friends.”

Vanja stayed in Croatia to heal himself

Lonely Vanja went to dating apps to find a company

I really think so 90 day fiance‘s Vanja dodged a bullet because Božo was not the right man for her. Here was Vanja with four jobs and a positive attitude towards life, while Božo had no motivation, which was evident from the fact that he was lied to him as a professional soccer player and lived with his mother. Božo was a coward who never deserved a woman like Vanja, but he was desperate to find love and Božo seemed like a good candidate for him to spend the rest of his life with until he didn’t deserve it.

The fact that Vanja chose to continue his vacation instead of returning home to deal with his heartache told me that he was not one to give up easily. Vanja used dating apps to have fun, but ended up in a very serious relationship with another man who didn’t appreciate her. Josko made big plans to move to America with her child. Vanja even chose a room in his house for the baby. I don’t know what Josko thought Vanja was not motherly enough to raise his son. He was probably just looking for himself without a relationship.

Josko took advantage of Vanja’s loneliness

If you knew that Vanja has just divorced

The 90 Day Groom: Before 90 days The Tell All previews tease something disastrous that Josko did with Vanja. Clip as posted by 90 day fiance blogger Shabooty shows Shaun Robinson asking Josko and Vanja about their sex lives after all the suppressed anticipation. Vanja had not been physically with anyone for six years. Vanja was embarrassed when he shared details with the camera, but Josko, who had joined via video call, felt the need to embarrass Vanja even more.

“Sexually, we liked one or two positions all the time,” Josko replied.

The comment surprised Vanja, and he decided to give Josko a taste of his own medicine, which I thought was a cheeky move. Admitting that she didn’t want to talk about it, Vanja told Shaun that Josko took a video of them in an intimate position without her knowledge. If you wanted to brag about it in front of the cameraand it hurt Vanja’s feelings deeply. Josko’s behavior showed that the relationship was never about love for them. Her shameless declaration shows that she probably used the baby as an excuse to gain Vanja’s trust.

Vanja deserves better than Božo & Josko

Should Vanja take a break from dating for the time being?

Me and thousands of others 90 Day Groom: Before 90 days fans have been disgusted by Josko’s actions. He is not better than Božo, but At least Božo was not close with Vanja and then tell him that he wanted to continue. Vanja has to get rid of men like Božo and Josko and rediscover his own worth. I get that two heartbreaks in a row hurts, but it could have been a lot worse 90 Day Groom: Before 90 dayss star. Vanja should know that he is a prey who deserves better in life.

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