Summary

  • Usman Umar popularly known as Sojaboy has had failed relationships with older American women on 90 Day Fiancé.
  • Although engaged to Kim Menzies, Usman wanted another wife to have children, causing turmoil in their relationship.
  • Usman introduced new girlfriend Kiera Elise after his split from Kim, but left fans questioning whether he will become a new father in 2024.



90 Day Groom: Before 90 days star Usman Umar AKA Sojaboy seems to have become a new father recently. Usman is a 35-year-old Nigerian musician who rose to global fame after his 90 Day Groom: Before 90 days season 4 debut. Usman has appeared on the show with two different women since his debut, but both relationships were toxic and ultimately failed. Usman was accused of dating older American women who may have fallen for his charms and brought him to the United States

Usman’s last relationship with Kim Menzies didn’t go well, even though the singer had a crush on him for years. Kim had infamously showered Usman with several expensive gifts. What Kim couldn’t give Usman was a child. The 18-year age difference between Kim and Usman ensured that she would never agree to have a child with him. Kim’s own son Jamal Menzies was 27 when he and Usman started dating.


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Usman married Lisa Hamme after a 90-day engagement

Lisa was reportedly removed from the franchise for insulting Usman

Before Kim, Usman was involved 90 day fiance franchise with Lisa AKA her “Baby girl.“Usman and Lisa acted 90 Day Groom: Before 90 days season 4. Lisa had met Usman on Facebook when he was still an entrepreneur in his home country. They were 20 years apart in age between them and came from different cultural backgrounds, but the aspiring hip-hop artist seemed to like Lisa. Usman even wrote a song for Lisa, who was making a living as a hospice worker in York, Pennsylvania at the time.


Lisa had mistaken Usman for a Yahoo boy who was just looking for a woman to bring to the United States

He knew their relationship seemed unrealistic due to their huge age difference. However, Lisa gave it a chance but felt insecure seeing Usman surrounded by his female fans in Nigeria. The couple married on his first trip to Usman’s country, but Lisa and Usman had divorced while the show was still on air. Lisa claimed that Usman married her to be on a TV show and gain exposure to sell his music.

Usman became Kim Menzies’ boyfriend before 90 days

Kim was Usman’s biggest fan girl


Lisa was not wrong as Usman got a lot of followers from the show and most fans liked his music. Kim was one of those fans who became an ardent admirer of rapper and singer Sojaboy. He had only two loves in his life, Michael Jackson and Usman. Kim had messaged Usman on social media and when he messaged her back, Kim fell in love “international superstarr” Usman AKA Sojaboy. Kim now wanted to be Usman’s girlfriend while he was still in a relationship with a woman named Zara. After the breakup, Usman invited Kim to Tanzania.

Usman took a lot of convincing from Kim to become her boyfriend.


He was desperate and Usman finally gave in to his advances. Kim and Usman were engaged when they started theirs Happily Ever After? season 6 journey after Before 90 days season 5. Kim flew to Nigeria to seek the blessings of the Usman family, even though she knew their age was a problem. Usman’s mother didn’t like that Kim was 50 years old.

“Marry a fertile girl who is ripe.”

Usman’s mother wanted him to stop bringing older women from a distant world into her home.

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Usman’s mother knew he made a mistake marrying Kim. He would rather marry a local woman closer to his age and part of their community. Usman’s mother hoped to meet her child one day. Usman’s mother had introduced him to an 18-year-old woman named Fareedet whom he went to see despite his relationship with Kim. Usman flirted with Fareedet and told the producers that she was “beautiful“. Fareedet admitted that she always wanted to get married and “produce children” and she saw Usman as her future husband.

Usman wanted to get another wife to have a baby

kids-with-usman”>Kim could not have children with Usman

Usman’s family gave Kim a contract stating that she had to surrender in order to be with Usman permanently. It stated that although Usman’s mother had accepted her as her daughter-in-law, Kim had to allow Usman to take another wife and have children with her. Kim seemed to agree to this condition, as well as the fact that if Usman moved to America, he could visit his family four times a year. Kim was fine with these strange terms. She willingly signed the contract because he allowed her to marry the man of her dreams.


Kim later changed her mind when she met Usman’s friend KB, who had two wives and nine children. “I have a chance to have nine (children), you know. I don’t want to take long, so why don’t you get two more wives and you four?Usman told Kim. Kim thought it was the stupidest thing Usman had ever said. Kim was okay with Usman having another wife. but now he spoke of three or four. Kim and Usman later learned that Usman would not be eligible for a green card if he had a second wife outside the United States

Usman and Kim decided to adopt their nephew

Kim and Usman disputed Mahad’s adoption


Since Usman could not get his second wife to bear a child, she decided to adopt her brother’s child. Usman approached his brother Mohammed to ask him if he could hand over Mahad to them. Usman assured Mohammed that he would take “Hundred percent” takes care of his nephew. He knew it meant uprooting Mahad from his parents’ home, country and culture and taking him to another place. Mohammed wanted his child to be Islamic. Kim and Usman argued about the idea of ​​adoption because she didn’t want to raise another child at her age.

What happened to Usman after his breakup with Kim?

Usman dated Kiera Elise


Kim and Usman started fighting after they met Mahad and his parents. They broke up but managed to remain friends. Kim hinted at a reconciliation with Usman at Tell All. In March 2023, Usman revealed that he was in love again. Usman introduced a woman named Kiera Elise To his Instagram fans as his new girlfriend. Usman was off the market for a very short time as Kiera revealed that they had broken up in July 2023. Kiera was young and only two years older than Usman. Usman could finally achieve his baby dream but now it was not possible.

Is Usman having a baby in 2024?

Did Usman marry someone after Kim and Kiera broke up?

March 26, 2024, Usman posted pictures of a little girl’s birthday. Usman was holding the baby in his arms and grinned for the camera as she posed in front of three large Disney-themed cakes. In another photo, Usman was standing next to two unidentified Nigerian women at a party. However, fans were confused by Usman’s text. Usman wrote:Happy birthday my daughter, good luck in this life Ameen.” 90 Day Groom: Before 90 days fans asked if he had become a new father. However, Usman is yet to respond to these confused fans.



90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After

airs Sundays at 8pm EDT on TLC.

Source: Usman Umar / Instagram

90 Day Groom: Before 90 days

90 Day Fiance, 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days is a reality TV/documentary series that follows potential spouses from abroad and their journey to America. The show documents the beginnings of a relationship on the other side of the ocean and the K-1 visa process that a spouse needs to live in a new country. Couples battle culture shock, language barriers, and the opinions of friends and family as they prepare to take the ultimate leap.

Publication date
August 6, 2017

The seasons
6

Network
TLC

Franchise(s)
90 day fiance

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